Birdie and Me
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What’s inside...
A stunning debut about a girl named Jack and her gender creative little brother, Birdie, searching for the place where they can be their true and best selves.
After their mama dies, Jack and Birdie find themselves without a place to call home. And when Mama's two brothers each try to provide one--first sweet Uncle Carl, then gruff Uncle Patrick--the results are funny, tender, and tragic.
They're also somehow . . . spectacular.
With voices and characters that soar off the page, J. M. M. Nuanez's debut novel depicts an unlikely family caught in a situation none of them would have chosen, and the beautiful ways in which they finally come to understand one another.
Age
9-10
Length
256 pages
Text complexity
Character compass
Jack
Birdie
Uncle Patrick
Uncle Carl
Discussion points
What qualities make Birdie special, and how do you think those qualities help her navigate her challenges?
Why do you think Jack and Birdie find comfort in wearing costumes, and how does it help them express themselves?
How do the siblings support each other throughout the story, and what can we learn from their relationship?
In what ways do the characters in the story show courage, and can you think of a time when you were courageous like them?
Tip: Role play these questions
Enable a safe space for your child to express their feelings about the book by sharing your own insights and vulnerabilities.
Encourage your child to relate personal experiences with the themes of identity, grief, and family support present in the book.
Discuss the importance of embracing differences in others, as exhibited by the characters, and ask your child how they can apply these lessons in their daily interactions.
Utilize costumes or creative expression as a playful way to deepen the discussion about how the characters use these methods to cope with their emotional struggles.
Key lessons
Example Lesson: Acceptance and empathy
Explanation: The story centers around Jack and Birdie learning to accept each other’s differences, particularly through Birdie's unique self-expression and Jack's journey of understanding.
Real-World Application: Children can learn the importance of embracing differences in others, fostering empathy and inclusive behaviors in school and social settings.
Example Lesson: Coping with loss
Explanation: Jack and Birdie face the emotional turmoil of losing their mother, depicting how they navigate their grief through support and resilience.
Real-World Application: This helps children understand that it's okay to grieve and that seeking support from loved ones can aid in the healing process.
Example Lesson: Importance of family
Explanation: Despite the challenges, the siblings' bond strengthens over time, underscoring the importance of family support during tough times.
Real-World Application: Encourages children to value and lean on their family relationships during both good times and bad.
Example Lesson: Identity and self-expression
Explanation: Birdie's love for wearing colorful costumes showcases individuality and the courage to be oneself.
Real-World Application: Children are encouraged to express themselves confidently and support others in doing the same, fostering a strong sense of self.
Example Lesson: Resilience in adversity
Explanation: Throughout the challenges, Jack and Birdie learn to adapt and overcome obstacles, demonstrating resilience.
Real-World Application: Teaches children that perseverance and a positive mindset can help overcome difficult situations.