Can't We Talk about Something More Pleasant?
What’s inside...
This collection features two distinct books. The first one is a graphic novel memoir that explores the author's experience with her aging parents, blending humor and sadness to portray the complexities of their final years. The second book, illustrated by Roz Chast, offers a whimsical, hour-by-hour look at a day in the lives of twenty-three children, filled with quirky and entertaining scenarios, showcasing Chast's unique humorous style.
Age
4-8
Length
32 pages
Text complexity
Character compass
Roz Chast
Elizabeth Chast
George Chast
Discussion points
What emotions did you feel while reading this book? Can you explain why?
How do you think the characters handled their challenges?
What have you learned about dealing with difficult situations from the story?
Could you relate to any of the characters' experiences? How?
What are some ways we can support each other as a family in tough times?
Tip: Role play these questions
Begin the discussion by sharing your own thoughts and feelings about the book to make your child feel more comfortable expressing theirs. Use empathetic listening, affirm your child's feelings, and offer your own experiences related to the themes. Encourage your child to think critically about how the characters handle their situations and ask what they might have done differently. Make connections to your family's values and experiences to deepen the conversation.
Key lessons
Example Lesson: The importance of empathy and understanding
Explanation: The book illustrates the struggles and emotional complexities of aging parents, showing the need for patience and empathy.
Real-World Application: Children can apply this lesson by showing kindness and understanding towards their own family members, especially older relatives.
Example Lesson: Dealing with challenging emotions
Explanation: The narrative portrays the author’s personal journey through her parents’ final years, highlighting how she copes with stress, frustration, and grief.
Real-World Application: This teaches children that it’s normal to experience challenging emotions and it's important to find healthy ways to express and manage them.
Example Lesson: The value of memory and storytelling
Explanation: The memoir emphasizes the significance of memories and the stories told by elderly family members, preserving family history.
Real-World Application: Children learn to value and preserve their family heritage by listening to and sharing stories from their own family members.