Dealing With Bullying
What Do You Do When….? Series
What’s inside...
Explored from a personal as well as social perspective, this series investigates the reasons why social problems develop and ways of dealing with situations that may arise. It examines the concept of bullying and how to handle this behavior, as well as other common social problems like racism. Each book features personal stories of real-life experiences, along with sensitive photos and illustrations, to provide insight into the topics. The texts explain why these problems occur and how making good choices and smart decisions can help overcome or avoid them.
Series reading
Non-Sequential
Age
8-10
Length
32 pages
Text complexity
Discussion points
How did the characters in the book handle bullying situations? Do you think their methods were effective?
Can you think of a time when you saw someone being bullied? What did you feel, and what did you do?
What are some ways you can help a friend who is being bullied?
How do you think bullies feel when they hurt others? Why do you think they act that way?
If you were a character in this book, what would you have done differently in a bullying situation?
Tip: Role play these questions
Start by sharing your own experiences with bullying, whether as a witness, victim, or even a bully. This openness sets a foundation for honest communication.
Praise empathetic reactions and insights as your child shares. This reinforces positive thinking and empathy toward others.
Ask follow-up questions based on your child’s responses to the key questions, to dive deeper into their thoughts and feelings.
Encourage them to suggest alternative endings or actions characters might have taken to resolve conflicts. This enhances critical thinking.
Remind your child that they can always come to you with worries about bullying, reassuring them of your support and guidance.
Key lessons
Example Lesson: Empathy and Understanding
Explanation: The book showcases characters who experience bullying and their emotional responses, teaching children to understand and empathize with how others feel.
Real-World Application: Children can apply this lesson by recognizing when their peers are upset or hurt and offering support or kindness.
Example Lesson: Importance of Speaking Out
Explanation: Characters in the story are encouraged to speak to trusted adults or friends about their experiences with bullying, highlighting the power of communication.
Real-World Application: This encourages children to express their feelings and seek help when facing bullying or witnessing it occur to others.
Example Lesson: Resilience and Courage
Explanation: As the story progresses, characters find ways to stand up for themselves and others, underscoring the importance of courage in difficult situations.
Real-World Application: Children learn to face challenges directly and defend themselves or others in situations where bullying occurs, fostering resilience.
Example Lesson: The Power of Friendship
Explanation: Supportive friendships play a key role in helping characters cope and overcome bullying, illustrating the strength found in positive relationships.
Real-World Application: This teaches children to cultivate and value strong friendships which can provide emotional support and help overcome social challenges.