Do I Have a Daddy?: A Story About a Single-Parent Child
What’s inside...
Do I Have a Daddy?: A Story About a Single-Parent Child by Jeanne Warren Lindsay is a children's book that addresses the sensitive topic of single-parent families. The story follows a young boy named Eric who begins to ask questions about his father, whom he has never known. His mother responds with patience and honesty, explaining the situation in a way that is appropriate for his age. She reassures Eric that he is loved and that their family, though different, is complete and happy. The book provides a gentle approach to discussing the concept of absent parents and is designed to help single parents talk with their children about this issue. It also includes a section with advice for single parents on how to handle such conversations.
Age
6-8
Length
48 pages
Text complexity
Character compass
The Boy
Mother
Discussion points
How do you think the child in the story feels about not having a daddy at home?
What are some ways the mother in the story shows her love and care for her child?
Why is it important to have people who love and support us, even if our families look different?
What did you learn about different kinds of families from this story?
How can we show kindness and understanding to friends who have different family situations?
Tip: Role play these questions
Before reading, explain to your child that families come in many forms and that all families are special in their own way.
While reading, point out the emotions the characters are experiencing, and ask your child how they might feel in similar situations.
After reading, share your own family stories that relate to the themes in the book, creating a personal connection with the story.
Encourage your child to draw a picture of their family and discuss each member's importance in their life.
Use the story as an opportunity to discuss the value of empathy and understanding towards others' unique family dynamics.
Key lessons
Example Lesson: Understanding Different Family Structures
Explanation: The story introduces children to the idea of single-parent families through the main character's experience, broadening their understanding of diverse family dynamics.
Real-World Application: Children learn to appreciate and respect different family setups they encounter among their friends and in the community, promoting inclusivity and empathy.
Example Lesson: Empathy and Compassion
Explanation: Through the main character's feelings and questions about his family situation, children are exposed to the emotions associated with sensitive family topics.
Real-World Application: This lesson helps children develop empathy by understanding and respecting the feelings of others who might have different family experiences.
Example Lesson: Curiosity and Asking Questions
Explanation: The book highlights the importance of asking questions as the child seeks to understand his family structure and the role of a father figure.
Real-World Application: Children are encouraged to explore and ask questions about their own family dynamics and other topics of interest, aiding their cognitive and social development.
Example Lesson: Resilience and Acceptance
Explanation: The child’s journey to acceptance and understanding his single-parent family shows resilience, adapting to personal circumstances positively.
Real-World Application: Children learn to adapt to and accept their own family situations, fostering a sense of security and self-worth.
Example Lesson: Open Family Communication
Explanation: The book underscores the importance of open conversations within the family through the dialogue between the child and his mother.
Real-World Application: Encourages children to have open discussions with their parents or guardians about any aspect of their lives, enhancing family bonds and emotional security.