I Loved You First (Sisters First, 3)
#3 of 3 in Sisters First Series
What’s inside...
Written by twin sisters Jenna Bush Hager and Barbara Pierce Bush, this picture-book celebrates the special moment when a first child learns that a parent’s heart expands – it never divides – when a new baby joins the family. Set in a contemporary American home, the lyrical text follows an older sibling who remembers being ‘loved first’ but slowly realises that love is not a finite pie. With soft, reassuring scenes of everyday life, the book gently guides young readers through feelings of pride, jealousy, curiosity, and finally joyful acceptance of a new brother or sister.
Discussion points
Why did the older child feel nervous when the baby arrived?
How did the parent explain love growing bigger?
What small ways can you help with a younger sibling or friend?
Can you remember a time you felt ‘loved first’?
Tip: Role play these questions
Let your child point out facial expressions in the art to identify emotions.
Create a ‘love grows’ jar: add a pebble for every kind act siblings share.
Key lessons
Example Lesson: Love expands with sharing
Explanation: Parent explains heart grows bigger, not smaller.
Real-World Application: Children learn affection isn’t limited; they can welcome new friends or siblings.
Example Lesson: Talking about feelings helps
Explanation: A bedtime chat resolves jealousy.
Real-World Application: Kids can seek conversations when upset.
Example Lesson: Helping builds confidence
Explanation: Older sibling assists with baby care.
Real-World Application: Assign small chores to nurture responsibility.