#37 in The Baby-Sitters Club Series
Mary Anne Breaks the Rules
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What’s inside...
Mary Anne agrees to do some housework for Mrs. Towne, an elderly neighbor who had recently been sick. Mrs. Towne's grandchildren, Amelia and Susan, come to stay with her and Mary Anne is asked to help care for them too. But the girls turn out to be a handful, and Mary Anne learns about the challenges and rewards of caregiving.
Discussion points
How did Mary Anne's actions make you feel, and why do you think she decided to break the rules?
What do you think are some important lessons Mary Anne learned by the end of the story?
If you were in Mary Anne's situation, how would you have handled it?
Can you think of a time when you faced a similar dilemma? What did you do?
Tip: Role play these questions
Encourage your child to express their thoughts and feelings about the story without interrupting them, showing that you value their opinions.
Relate the situations in the book to real-life scenarios your child might encounter, making the discussion more relevant and engaging.
Discuss the consequences of breaking rules and the importance of considering other people's feelings before making decisions.
Praise your child for their insights and encourage them to think critically about what they would do differently in Mary Anne’s place.
Key lessons
Example Lesson: Understanding consequences of actions
Explanation: Mary Anne faces repercussions when she breaks the club’s strict rules by babysitting without permission.
Real-World Application: Teaches children that actions have consequences, helping them understand the importance of following rules and thinking about potential outcomes before acting.
Example Lesson: Valuing honesty
Explanation: Mary Anne learns to value honesty as she navigates the tension between her actions and the Club’s expectations, ultimately choosing to confess and apologize.
Real-World Application: Encourages children to be honest and upfront about their mistakes, demonstrating that integrity builds trust.
Example Lesson: Empathy and understanding
Explanation: Through her experiences, Mary Anne learns to understand different perspectives, especially when dealing with the upset parents and club members.
Real-World Application: Encourages children to consider other people’s feelings and viewpoints, fostering empathy and better communication in their interactions.
Example Lesson: Conflict resolution
Explanation: Mary Anne resolves the conflict with her friends by discussing the issues openly and finding a mutually agreeable solution.
Real-World Application: Teaches children effective conflict resolution skills, emphasizing open communication and collaboration to solve disagreements.