Miss Spider's Wedding
#4 in Miss Spider Series
What’s inside...
Meeting the man of her dreams, Miss Spider prepares for and enjoys a beautiful wedding despite the scrutiny of her peers, in a story about accepting and appreciating differences. By the author of Miss Spider's Tea Party. BOMC Alt.
Character compass
Miss Spider
Holley Spider
Discussion points
How do you think Miss Spider felt when she was trying to find a partner? What makes you feel that way?
What qualities did Miss Spider look for in her friends? Which qualities do you think are important in a friend?
Why do you think it was important for Miss Spider to have friends help her on her special day?
How do the different characters in the book help each other? Can you think of a time when you helped someone, or someone helped you?
Tip: Role play these questions
Use expressive voices for different characters to make the reading session more entertaining and help your child differentiate between the characters.
Pause after reading important parts to ask your child how they think a character is feeling, encouraging them to empathize with and reflect on the characters' emotions.
Discuss the illustrations with your child, asking them what they notice and like about the artwork, which helps in developing observational skills.
Relate the story to your child's experiences, such as attending a wedding or a party, to make the content more relatable and memorable.
Key lessons
Example Lesson: Empathy and Understanding
Explanation: In 'Miss Spider's Wedding', Miss Spider shows great compassion and understanding towards other characters, despite their differences.
Real-World Application: Children can learn to appreciate the feelings of others and understand that everyone has unique traits and qualities, fostering stronger relationships.
Example Lesson: Patience in Love
Explanation: The story illustrates how Miss Spider remains patient and hopeful in finding love, showcasing the importance of patience.
Real-World Application: This teaches children the value of being patient and waiting for the right moment, helping them develop healthy emotional responses in their social interactions.
Example Lesson: Acceptance and Non-Judgement
Explanation: Miss Spider's suitors learn to overcome their initial fears and misconceptions about her, leading to moments of acceptance and non-judgement.
Real-World Application: This encourages children to be accepting of others, regardless of first impressions or differences, promoting inclusivity.
Example Lesson: Courage to Be True to Oneself
Explanation: Throughout her adventures and the challenges of the wedding, Miss Spider stays true to herself, showing courage.
Real-World Application: Children learn the importance of self-confidence and being true to their own values, which is crucial for their personal development and self-esteem.