My Secret Admirer (Full House: Stephanie)
#22 in Full House: Club Stephanie Series
on Goodreads (41)
What’s inside...
While writing love letters for her friend Darcy, Stephanie begins falling for Darcy's boyfriend herself and wonders how she can reveal herself as the true letter writer without losing Darcy's friendship.
Character compass
Stephanie Tanner
Discussion points
How do you think Stephanie felt when she received the secret notes? Can you relate to her feelings?
What would you do if you were in Stephanie's situation receiving secret admirer notes?
Why is it important to respect others' feelings, as seen in the story?
What did Stephanie learn about friendship and honesty by the end of the book?
How would you handle a misunderstanding among friends like Stephanie did?
Tip: Role play these questions
Encourage your child to express their thoughts and feelings as they relate to Stephanie’s experiences, fostering empathy and understanding.
Discuss the importance of honesty and openness in friendships, drawing parallels to real-life situations your child may encounter.
Use examples from the book to talk about problem-solving and how misunderstandings can be resolved through communication.
Ask your child how they might feel in a similar situation and what choices they would make, reinforcing critical thinking and decision-making skills.
Key lessons
Example Lesson: Understanding and dealing with emotions
Explanation: The story covers themes of secrecy, admiration, and misunderstanding as Stephanie receives gifts from a secret admirer. It explores how she navigates these feelings and the confusion they bring.
Real-World Application: Children can learn to identify their own emotions and understand that it is okay to feel confused or excited. They can also learn to seek help from trusted adults to understand and manage their emotions.
Example Lesson: Importance of communication
Explanation: Stephanie’s experiences highlight the need to communicate openly. Misunderstandings in the book are often resolved through honest conversations.
Real-World Application: This encourages children to express their feelings and thoughts openly and to ask questions when they are unsure about a situation, fostering effective communication skills.
Example Lesson: Value of friendship and trust
Explanation: Throughout the book, the role of friends and family in Stephanie’s life is emphasized, showing how trust is built and why it's important.
Real-World Application: Kids learn the importance of building trust in relationships and being a reliable friend or family member in their own lives.