Our Tree Named Steve
What’s inside...
Dear Kids, A long time ago, when you were little, Mom and I took you to where we wanted to build a house. I remember there was one tree, however, that the three of you couldn't stop staring at. After the family spares him from the builders, Steve the tree quickly works his way into their lives. He holds their underwear when the dryer breaks down, he's there when Adam and Lindsay get their first crushes, he's the centerpiece at their outdoor family parties. With a surprising lack of anthropomorphizing, this is a uniquely poignant celebration of fatherhood, families, love, and change.
Age
3-8
Length
32 pages
Text complexity
Character compass
Dad
The Kids
Discussion points
How do you think the family felt when they found out Steve the tree was still standing after the storm?
What special memories would you attach to a tree or a place like Steve?
Why do you think the tree was named Steve?
How do the characters show they care for Steve throughout the book?
If you could say something to Steve, what would it be?
Tip: Role play these questions
Start the conversation by sharing a personal story about a special place or object from your own childhood.
Use expressive reading to emphasize the emotional parts of the story—this will help your child connect to the emotional undertones.
Ask your child to draw their version of Steve the tree and discuss the unique characteristics they envisioned.
Encourage your child to think of creative ways they could make their own backyard or a nearby park special, similar to how Steve was special to the family in the book.
After reading, take a walk with your child to a nearby park or yard and discuss what makes certain trees or places special.
Key lessons
Example Lesson: The importance of family unity
Explanation: The story revolves around a family and their beloved tree, Steve, which serves as a central point for family gatherings and memories. The tree symbolizes the family's strength and unity.
Real-World Application: Children learn the value of being supportive and staying connected with family members, fostering strong family bonds in their own lives.
Example Lesson: Dealing with loss and change
Explanation: As the story progresses, the family faces the loss of their tree due to a storm, which symbolizes life's unpredictable changes and losses.
Real-World Application: This teaches children to cope with changes and loss in a healthy way, understanding that while physical objects might be gone, memories and love endure.
Example Lesson: Resilience and positivity
Explanation: Despite the loss of the tree, the family chooses to remember the good times they shared around Steve, which highlights resilience and finding positivity in adverse situations.
Real-World Application: Children learn to focus on positive memories and remain resilient during challenging times, helping them to navigate their own difficulties with a positive outlook.
Example Lesson: Environmental appreciation
Explanation: Steve, the tree, provides a habitat for animals and a playground for the children, teaching the importance of trees and nature in our lives.
Real-World Application: Children are encouraged to appreciate and care for the environment around them, promoting a lifelong stewardship of nature.