Struggling With Conflicts With Others (Project 17:17)
Friendship 911 Collection Series
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What’s inside...
15 year-old Ken Myers is fed up. He says his parents never listen to him, he feels like an outsider in his own home. And it's not much better with his 'friend' Todd-they're not talking to each other anymore. What can he do to resolve the conflict? Through the aid of a gripping true-to-life story, Josh and Ed, offer biblical insights and practical instruction.
Series reading
Non-Sequential
Age
12-17
Length
64 pages
Text complexity
Discussion points
What are some ways you can resolve a disagreement with a friend?
Can you think of a time when you felt misunderstood? How did you handle it?
Why do you think it's important to listen to other people's perspectives?
What are some things you can do if you're feeling upset during a conflict?
How can understanding someone else's feelings help in resolving conflicts?
Tip: Role play these questions
Encourage your child to express their thoughts and feelings openly during the discussion.
Relate the scenarios in the book to real-life situations your child might have experienced to make the discussion more relatable.
Be patient and listen actively to your child’s responses, providing affirmations or gentle corrections when necessary.
Guide the conversation to help your child understand the importance of empathy, respect, and communication in resolving conflicts.
Use examples from the book to discuss the consequences of different actions taken during conflicts.
Key lessons
Example Lesson: Empathy
Explanation: The book conveys empathy by showing characters who learn to understand and share the feelings of others, promoting an emotional connection.
Real-World Application: Children can apply this lesson by being more attentive to how their peers feel and responding compassionately in social situations at school or in play.
Example Lesson: Conflict Resolution
Explanation: Illustrated through scenarios where characters face disagreements, the book teaches effective strategies to resolve conflicts amicably.
Real-World Application: This lesson helps children negotiate solutions and compromise during disputes with siblings or friends, fostering harmonious relationships.
Example Lesson: Communication Skills
Explanation: The story emphasizes the importance of clear and honest communication through its characters, who learn to express their thoughts and feelings openly.
Real-World Application: Kids can learn to articulate their perspectives and listen to others, which is crucial in group activities and classroom settings.
Example Lesson: Responsibility
Explanation: Characters in the book are shown making decisions that affect others, thereby learning about consequences and the importance of responsible behavior.
Real-World Application: Children can mirror this behavior by taking ownership of their actions at home and in school, such as by admitting when they make mistakes.
Example Lesson: Respect for Diversity
Explanation: The book presents a range of characters from different backgrounds, teaching readers to appreciate and respect diverse perspectives.
Real-World Application: This lesson encourages children to embrace multicultural environments, promoting inclusivity in their communities and schools.