TBH #6: TBH, You Know What I Mean
#6 of 8 in TBH Series
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What’s inside...
TBH, sometimes boys say dumb things about girls. And Cece is sick of it! When she leads a super-successful event at school to raise awareness, everyone starts looking to her to take charge—of everything. Prianka needs ideas for National Poetry Month, Victoria wants advice on volunteer projects, and Gabby needs homework help. To be honest, being a leader is fun but the pressure is OOC (out of control)! Can Cece help her friends without totally losing it herself?
Discussion points
What do you think about the decisions the characters made in the story? Would you have done anything differently if you were in their shoes?
How do the characters' use of technology affect their relationships? Can you relate to their experiences?
What are some ways the characters show their friendship? How important do you think communication is in maintaining friendships?
What lessons did the characters learn by the end of the book? How can those lessons apply to your own life?
Tip: Role play these questions
Encourage your child to express their opinions about the characters and plot, affirming their feelings and perspectives.
Discuss the role of technology in the story and relate it to your child’s own use of technology in daily life.
Highlight the importance of empathy by discussing the different challenges faced by the characters and how they dealt with them.
Use examples from the book to discuss the value of honesty and communication in relationships, asking your child how they could apply these values in their own life.
Key lessons
Example Lesson: Importance of Communication
Explanation: In 'TBH, You Know What I Mean,' the characters navigate their way through misunderstandings and conflicts by learning to communicate openly and honestly.
Real-World Application: Children can apply this by expressing their feelings and thoughts clearly in challenging situations whether at school or home, fostering better relationships.
Example Lesson: Value of Friendship
Explanation: Throughout the book, the characters demonstrate teamwork and support for each other during personal challenges, highlighting the strength of friendships.
Real-World Application: Children learn to support their friends and understand the importance of having a support system, which helps in developing strong, trusting relationships.
Example Lesson: Handling Peer Pressure
Explanation: The characters in the story face typical peer pressure scenarios. They learn to make decisions that reflect their true values rather than succumbing to external influences.
Real-World Application: This lesson prepares children to face peer pressure in school or social settings and encourages them to make choices that align with their own beliefs and values.
Example Lesson: Responsibility and Consequences
Explanation: As the characters make various choices, they experience the consequences of those actions, which teaches them about responsibility.
Real-World Application: Children can understand that their actions have consequences, encouraging them to think before they act and make more responsible decisions.
Example Lesson: Embracing Change
Explanation: The book depicts characters going through transitions and adapting to new situations, which teaches resilience and openness to change.
Real-World Application: Children learn to be adaptable and resilient in the face of change, such as moving to a new school or dealing with changes in family dynamics.