TBH #7: TBH, No One Can EVER Know
#7 of 8 in TBH Series
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What’s inside...
Victoria's mom, known for being overprotective, has been experiencing heightened anxiety, causing strain in their mother-daughter relationship. As Victoria assists in planning the school's Valentine's Day dance, her participation is uncertain due to her mom's worries. To repair their relationship, Victoria may need to reveal her most embarrassing secret to her best friends. The situation is further complicated by a Valentine’s Day dance, snooping parents, and a multitude of secrets in this humorous series conveyed through text messages, emojis, and notes.
Discussion points
How did the characters in the story handle secrets? Can you think of a time when you had a secret and didn't know what to do with it?
What did this book teach you about friendship and trust?
How would you react if you were in a similar situation as the characters in the book?
Which character did you relate to the most and why?
What would you have done differently if you were in the characters' shoes?
Tip: Role play these questions
Start the conversation by sharing a personal story about handling secrets when you were younger to make the discussion relatable.
Praise your child’s insights and encourage them to reflect deeper on their responses to foster critical thinking.
Connect the themes of the book to real-life situations your child may encounter to help them apply the lessons learned.
Encourage empathy by asking your child how they think various characters felt during key moments in the story.
Maintain a non-judgmental tone to ensure your child feels comfortable expressing their thoughts and feelings about the book.
Key lessons
Example Lesson: The importance of honesty
Explanation: Throughout the story, the characters face situations where they must choose between telling the truth or keeping secrets. Their decisions and the resulting consequences highlight the value of honesty.
Real-World Application: Children learn that being honest can help build trust and strengthen relationships in real life, whether with friends, family, or teachers.
Example Lesson: Understanding the impact of actions on others
Explanation: The book explores how the characters' actions affect those around them, teaching readers about empathy and consideration.
Real-World Application: This lesson helps children grasp the concept that their actions can positively or negatively influence others, guiding them to be more mindful and compassionate in their daily interactions.
Example Lesson: The power of communication
Explanation: Misunderstandings and resolved conflicts in the book demonstrate how open communication can prevent and solve problems.
Real-World Application: Encourages children to express their feelings and thoughts openly, promoting healthier and more effective communication with peers and adults.
Example Lesson: The value of friendship during challenging times
Explanation: As the characters encounter various challenges, their bonds of friendship are tested and ultimately strengthened, showing the importance of supportive relationships.
Real-World Application: Teaches children to value and nurture their friendships, especially during difficult times, fostering a supportive network for emotional well-being.