Waiting for Normal
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What’s inside...
This poignant and joyful novel is filled with meaningful moments and emotional resonance. Addie is waiting for normal. But Addie's mother has an all-or-nothing approach to life: a food fiesta or an empty pantry, her way or no way. Addie’s mother is bipolar, and she often neglects Addie. All-or-nothing never adds up to normal, and it can't bring Addie home, where she wants to be with her half-sisters and her stepfather. But Addie never stops hoping that one day, maybe, she'll find normal. The book has been recognized with several awards and is celebrated as an inspiring story of perseverance and hope.
Age
10-13
Length
290 pages
Text complexity
Character compass
Addison 'Addie' Schmeeter
Dwight
Hannah
Soula
Denise (Mommers)
Discussion points
How did Addie handle the challenging situations she faced in the book? What would you have done differently?
What role do you think Dwight played in Addie’s life? Why is it important to have supportive people around us?
Addie finds joy in music; what are things that make you feel happy and hopeful in difficult times?
What does 'normal' mean to you after reading Addie’s story? How did your perception change?
How did the setting of the story, living in a trailer, affect Addie’s everyday life and challenges?
Tip: Role play these questions
Create an open and safe environment for your child to express their feelings and thoughts as they relate to the book’s themes.
Relate discussions to personal experiences where possible, to help your child connect deeper with Addie’s experiences.
Acknowledge the emotional aspects of the story, and encourage your child to explore and talk about different emotions.
Focus on the theme of resilience, discussing how challenges can be faced and what can be learned from them.
Encourage critical thinking by asking your child what they might have done differently in Addie’s situation and why.
Key lessons
Example Lesson: Resilience in the face of adversity
Explanation: The protagonist, Addie, demonstrates resilience as she navigates the challenges of her unstable family life with hope and determination.
Real-World Application: Children can learn to stay optimistic and handle life's obstacles with a positive attitude, even when situations are tough.
Example Lesson: Importance of family and support networks
Explanation: Throughout the story, Addie finds solace and support in her stepfather and half-sisters, highlighting the importance of family and chosen family in difficult times.
Real-World Application: Children can be encouraged to appreciate and seek support from family members and close friends during challenging times, understanding the strength that comes from togetherness.
Example Lesson: Developing independence
Explanation: As Addie manages daily challenges largely on her own, she grows more self-reliant and confident in her abilities.
Real-World Application: This can inspire children to take initiative, solve their own problems, and develop confidence in their independent skills.
Example Lesson: Empathy for others
Explanation: Addie's experiences with her family's struggles allow her to develop a deep sense of empathy and understanding for those around her.
Real-World Application: Children can learn the value of considering other people's feelings and situations, leading to more compassionate interactions with peers.
Example Lesson: Hope and positivity
Explanation: Despite the challenges she faces, Addie maintains a hopeful outlook on life, demonstrating the power of positivity.
Real-World Application: Children can learn that maintaining hope and focusing on the positive aspects of their lives can lead to emotional resilience and overall happiness.