You Are More When Obeying Is Hard
#2 of 4 in You Are More Series
What’s inside...
Mark is in trouble because he disobeyed his mom. Jesus shows him through the story of Shadrach, Meshach, and Abednego that God makes it possible for us to obey, even when it is hard. This beautifully illustrated children's book is based on the truths of God's teachings and serves as a powerful reminder of the importance of obedience.
Discussion points
What do you think makes it difficult for the character to obey in the story?
How do you feel when you are asked to do something you find hard?
Can you remember a time when obeying was hard for you? What helped you make the right choice?
Why do you think obeying is important even when it's difficult?
How did the character change by the end of the story after making tough choices?
Tip: Role play these questions
Before reading, explain the importance of obedience and discuss times when obeying might be challenging.
Pause at key moments in the story to ask your child how they would feel or react in the character's situation.
Reinforce the positive outcomes in the book when the character chooses to obey despite difficulties.
After reading, relate the story to your child's personal experiences, fostering a deeper connection to the book’s theme.
Praise your child for sharing their thoughts and emotions, and share your own experiences to encourage open dialogue.
Key lessons
Example Lesson: The importance of integrity
Explanation: The book showcases situations where the main character faces choices between easy wrongs and difficult rights, emphasizing the value of doing the right thing even when it's hard.
Real-World Application: Children can apply this by choosing honesty in their daily interactions, whether in admitting mistakes or standing up for what is right, even if peers are choosing otherwise.
Example Lesson: The power of perseverance
Explanation: In 'You Are More When Obeying Is Hard,' the protagonist encounters challenges that require persistence to overcome, teaching that obstacles are a part of growth.
Real-World Application: This lesson can encourage children to continue working on difficult tasks at school or in personal projects, understanding that persistence leads to achievement.
Example Lesson: Empathy towards others
Explanation: Through interactions with various characters, the protagonist learns to understand and share the feelings of others, promoting an empathetic outlook.
Real-World Application: Children learn to consider the feelings of friends or family members in real-life situations, which can lead to more harmonious relationships and effective communication.
Example Lesson: Responsibility for one's actions
Explanation: The story underlines the consequences of the character’s actions, both good and bad, teaching accountability.
Real-World Application: This can help children recognize their role in outcomes and encourage them to take responsibility for their actions at home or school.
Example Lesson: Courage to stand up for oneself
Explanation: Challenging moments in the book demonstrate the necessity of self-advocacy and the courage it requires.
Real-World Application: Kids can be inspired to respectfully express their needs and opinions in situations where they may otherwise feel overlooked or misunderstood.